This week, with the president’s appointment of Sonia Sotomayor, much of the buzz is about the motive for the choice. Why are opponents making an issue of her race? No one suggested President Bush chose the last Supreme Court appointee, Justice Roberts, for his race or gender. It’s perfectly legitimate to question the nominee’s views and scrutinize her credentials, but why make race an issue when the candidate is clearly qualified to hold the office? As a woman and a minority, it exhausts me that few in the media point out the sheer arrogance of the argument – the inherent assumption that if the candidate is a minority or even a woman, that somehow she must have been given some sort of special consideration. Perhaps I am sensitive to it because I’ve experienced it first hand. Perhaps you have, too.
When someone has achieved the American dream through hard work, grit and determination – whether we agree with their views or not – can we, as Americans, drop the race card? Or rather the reverse racism card. Why is it assumed that minorities can’t be ‘color blind’? No one ever asks that about those in the majority. Will we ever stop making assumptions about people based on outward appearances? What do you think?
Coachable moment:
As we make progress in the areas of race and gender relations, it is essential that conscious individuals lead by example. Whatever your race or gender, consider a way in which you have held a grudge or made an assumption about someone different from you solely based on their race or gender. In what way could you let go of an unfair assumption or give them the benefit of the doubt? When you dust the chip off your shoulder, it’s surprising how much lighter your load feels.

3 comments
Comments feed for this article
May 29, 2009 at 4:59 pm
Cheryl Cousins
I appreciate the way you’re encouraging us to look at this situation. It’s disturbing indeed. When the race card is played, it lures us into putting up our individual walls of protection because of our own painful experiences and hinders the progress toward a unifying change that so many of us want to embrace. With combined effort, we can learn to stand up against these unfair assumptions and work through it all so that those who “rush” to play “cards” think twice before they show their hand. We need to spread the consiousness
Great coachable moment Valorie… you’re doing your part for sure! I value your perspective.
June 1, 2009 at 3:06 pm
licenseop
Valorie,
I agree with you 100% and I too am tired of race always being something to be discussed when it has nothing to do with the situation. I am glad you are not afraid to speak about it.
June 24, 2009 at 4:04 pm
Patricia
Valorie,
We need to make a stand !! for our president those folks that keep talking about his choices.They need to leave him alone. He knows what he is doing and he doesn’t make choices based on the race card he makes it on what is the qualities and experience of the folks he appoints,The race card people need to do research because he not just putting people of color he is putting people that are quailifed. What does the color of one skin really have to do with. Was Bush right because he was white?